Fixations & Limiting Beliefs © Martyn Carruthers 2005 1. Introduction to Bonds & Fixations . 2. Bonds, Fixations & Identity Loss Part 3: Change Relationship Bonds & Beliefs Although businesses spend fortunes to influence your shopping behavior, their influence is minor compared to that of your parents, teachers and doctors. Read more
Is Your Partner Cheating? © Martyn Carruthers People change when they’re having affairs. Your partner may start exercising, become less courteous, work late more often or take unpaid business trips. This doesn’t mean that your partner is betraying you, it just means “pay attention”. Here are some common signs of Read more
Feel the richness, mystery and myth of the sacred Hawaiian islands … and the surrounding ocean. Most summers you can find us on Big Island Hawaii. It is our place of rest and regeneration. It is not only where we recharge our batteries, it is where we find spiritual renewal. Read more
Systems Coaching & Training in Kona, Hawaii Are you entangled in difficult relationships or painful emotions? Do you suffer from old trauma? Do you suffer from your parents’ drama or your partner’s demands? We can coach you to untangle your life … and you can help people to reclaim their Read more
Martyn Carruthers – Coach Training 2007 Native Hawaiians were once classified as a primitive race with an animistic and polytheistic religion (like American Indians). Unlike Christian philosophies in which a soul is an individual possession, many Hawaiians appear to have conceived of a soul as part of a community. For Read more
© Martyn Carruthers We help people manage their emotions, change deep limiting beliefs and solve relationship problems. Our coaching often seems to affect chronic pains, generally those called “psychosomatic“. Pain Control People experiencing pain or reflex sympathetic dystrophy (RSD) may be preoccupied and unable to focus on methods of pain Read more
Making Love Last © Martyn Carruthers Few topics fascinate people more than love. We think about it, we talk about it, we hope for it, we fantasize about it, and we may feel that our lives are incomplete without it. Most of us know how it feels to love … Read more
End child abuse! © Martyn Carruthers & Kosjenka Muk Your early family relationships are the most influential relationships of your life. Confusion in those early relationships can lead to confusion throughout life. Contact us for help resolving emotional and relationship issues. Go to: Emotional Incest Solutions (Part 2) Covert emotional Read more
When Too Much is Not Enough © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy You are unlikely to cure an eating disorder with willpower alone. Compulsive eating seems not so much about food as about control. Who controls you when you lose control? The answer is usually a Read more
You’re Dead Right © Martyn Carruthers 1998 Online Help: Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy We offer online help and mentorship about death and dying, grief, bereavement and relationships with people whose bodies have died. I, Robot? I once wrote a program so that my computer would randomly display human ideas. Read more