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Relationship Goals and Blocks © Martyn Carruthers Online Relationship Coaching, Counseling & Therapy The man behind the microscope has this advice for you; Instead of asking what it is – as what does it do. Healthy Relationships & Solutions for Relationship Problems For most people, relationships are “states of feeling connected”. The connections may be genetic or legal, and transient or lasting. Sometimes relationship refers to casual friends, sometimes to short-term sexual or intimate affairs Read more…

Online Solutions for Child Abuse © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy Is it easier to take drugs than to resolve relationship issues? Is it easier for you to use alcohol, nicotine, prescription anti-depressants and stimulants than to apply intelligence and analytical skills to your relationships? What is Normal? Since the dawn of history, most people lived in rural communities with many relatives. Almost everyone they knew was family. Learning parenting was Read more…

Coaching Parents to Coach Children © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy We offer help and training on family therapy, codependence, parent coaching and relationship skills. Coaching Children When coaching people to coach children and adolescents, we explore what motivates the children, NOT so much the parents! To interact better with children, we strive to understand their family lives, their interests, personality, sports, hobbies and skills. We show that we care! Watching, Read more…

Brother-Sister Problems © Martyn Carruthers 2008 Online Help: Coaching, Counseling & Therapy Are you entangled in stressful relationships or emotions with a sibling? Do you suffer from childhood emotions associated with a brother or a sister? We help people to untangle and improve difficult family relationships. Continued from Part 1: Problems between Brothers & Sisters I wanted to write about the consequences of birth order … yet the existence of siblings (living, dead, aborted or Read more…

Searching for Yourself © Martyn Carruthers 2004 Online Help: Coaching, Counseling & Therapy Being adopted can be wonderful … and being adopted can lead to lasting emotional problems and unhealthy relationship habits. Adopting a Child Did Your Parents Abandon You? Many babies are conceived by people who do not wish to raise them … and do not want to abort them. Couples who wish to experience or extend parenthood may adopt children. Adopting children can Read more…

Change Limiting Beliefs © Martyn Carruthers Online Help: Counseling & Soulwork Therapy Are you limited by your beliefs? Do you sabotage yourself? Do you want to change toxic ideas or negative fixations? Do You have Toxic, Limiting or Negative Beliefs? Did you accept the beliefs of your parents or mentors as THE truth? While, their beliefs are your heritage, your legacy and perhaps an entrance fee for your life; their beliefs may also be part Read more…

When Children Reject Parents © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching for Adult Children of Difficult Parents Do you feel rejected by your family? We help people resolve emotional and relationship issues. PAS Part 1 – Before Adolescence . Covert Emotional Incest . Anger & Rage Parental Alienation Part 2 – After Adolescence Children, especially children under stress, often perceive a black or white world. Things are good … or bad. People are nice … or Read more…

Maturity & Responsibility … Alone © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy Contact us to manage negative emotions and solve relationship problems. Are you entangled in difficult relationships or painful emotions? Do you still suffer the consequences of your childhood? Single Parents (continued from Single Parenting) Single parents have many challenges, including some that they cannot solve. Some lack the knowledge or resources for fulfilling parenthood. Custodial parents have the practical problems Read more…

Happy Relationships © Martyn Carruthers & Kosjenka Muk Online Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy Do you want to manage your emotions and solve relationship conflicts? We offer relationship coaching, marriage counseling and supervision. Happy Ever After? How did you learn about partnership? From books? (… the handsome prince met the beautiful princess and they lived happily ever after). Did you learn by watching your parents and relatives? Perhaps you learned about love from TV, movies Read more…

Do you want to let go and move on? © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching to Detach from Past Partners Are you clinging to someone? Is someone clinging to you? Do you want to solve relationship problems? Mature Partnership Skills In 2010, I typed “mature partnership skills” into Google and read: “No results found for mature partnership skills”. What does this say about the importance of maturity and partnership? Whenever I coach couples to build Read more…