Relationship Consequences of Abuse

Table of Contents Steps to healthy relationships © Martyn CarruthersAre you Bonded to People who Abused You?Are you bonded by Abuse?Other BondsWhat can you do? Steps to healthy relationships © Martyn Carruthers Abuse can cause identity issues, difficult emotions and self-sabotage. Forgiving or forgetting abuse is not enough, and being forced to forgive is another form of abuse. Are you Bonded to People who Abused You? Bonding is normal human behavior. Are you bonded to Read more…

Solutions for Arguments

Table of Contents Online Help for Partnership Problems © Martyn CarruthersAre you still ANGRY later?Dealing with AngerChronic Anger & Aggression Online Help for Partnership Problems © Martyn Carruthers Arguments are part of relationships. Arguments reflect your values, beliefs, boundaries and bonds. Healthy arguments can INCREASE your happiness together. Unhealthy arguments can destroy your relationships. Arguments are essential. Arguments help you fine tune your relationships and challenge injustices. Yet some arguments may cause you to act Read more…

Crisis Coaching and Contingency Plans

Table of Contents Disaster Recovery © Martyn CarruthersPlanning for Crisis, Emergencies & Disaster RecoverySystemic Solutions for Crisis Management1. Big Picture 2. Critical Situations3. Team Members We select a contingency planning team. We include people with different perspectives of the company’s vulnerabilities. Include people with detailed knowledge of the building, and of the computer network. We include department managers and a human resources person, if you have one. 4. Contact Staff We list all staff names, Read more…

In-House Training & Management Development

Table of Contents Emotional and Relationship Problems © Martyn CarruthersThose who can coach – doThose who can’t coach – do everything themselves!Do you need In-House Training?We can – In-House TrainingOur trainers can:Get it right the first time! Emotional and Relationship Problems © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Training Do you want dynamic training or online services for teamwork and relationships? One of our specialties is couple counseling for managers and their partners Those Read more…

Emergency Preparedness Training

Table of Contents Prepare for Contingencies © Martyn CarruthersThis is not a drill …Emergency WorkersEmergency Preparedness TrainingEmergency BasicsGetting ReadyPlans & OperationsPreparing for DisasterCrisis CoachingEmergency TeamworkMartyn Carruthers Prepare for Contingencies © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching & Training This is not a drill … Emergency preparedness, contingency planning, crisis management and disaster control are arts that reflect clusters of sciences and demand a huge number of skills. Well designed emergency training and well exercised contingency plans Read more…

Managing Refugees & Displaced People (2)

Table of Contents © Martyn CarruthersImportant factors when managing displaced people: The Dark Side Life in a refugee camp can challenge physical and mental resources. Some camps are organized like penal colonies, with all aspects of life regulated. Refugees may be blamed for all problems arising in and near these camps; and refugees deemed “problematic” may be forcibly returned to hostile conditions. When refugees provide forced labor, the differences between refugee camps and concentration camps Read more…

Hope for Orphans in Africa

Table of Contents Dar es Salaam, TanzaniaHOPE in Swahili is TUMAINIBackgroundMission & VisionOther supportHope for Orphans PO Box 80344, Dar es Salaam, Tanzania Dar es Salaam, Tanzania HOPE in Swahili is TUMAINI Tumaini Kibona I organize community programs that provide prevention, care and support for orphans and vulnerable children in Tanzania. I am bilingual in English and Swahili. I ask you to help us … help children. Tumaini means hope in Swahili Hope for Orphans Read more…

Soulwork Africa: Tanzania & AIDS Orphans

Hope for AIDS Orphans in Tanzania Table of Contents Systemic Coaching & Training in AfricaSystemic Support for Relief Workers Martyn CarruthersSystemic Coaching ObjectivesSystemic Coach Training in Africa Systemic Coaching & Training in Africa We introduced systemic coaching to Africa with SABC TV (South Africa Broadcasting Corporation). We provide assistance for volunteer workers who assist AIDS orphans in East Africa and for organizations who help young people have better relationships in Nigeria. HIV and AIDS is Read more…

Refugee Coaching & Management (1)

Table of Contents © Martyn CarruthersThink Globally – Act LocallyWhat can YOU do?Refugee Management1. Crisis Management2. Refugee Resource Management © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching & Mentorship Think Globally – Act Locally As you read this – right now – about 20 million people are forcibly displaced from their homes. They are displaced by wars, famine and governments. About 7 million are in Southwest Asia (mostly Iran and Pakistan), North Africa and the Middle East; Read more…