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Mother-Son Emotional Incest 3 © Martyn Carruthers Online Counseling for Emotional Incest      Men who Obsess about their Mothers Contact us to resolve emotional and relationship problems. Do childhood memories, beliefs and habits disturb your life? Many relationship difficulties start in childhood – with parents who do not know how to parent. Mother’s Boy Part 1 … If a lonely mother perceives her son as special, Mother rewards her Son for his specialness, and Son Read more…

Freedom from Manipulation © Martyn Carruthers 2005 Online Help: Coaching, Counseling & Therapy Do you want to untangle difficult relationships or negative emotions? Do you want to change how you react to people? Recognize Compliance and Overcome Manipulation Many marketing programs are designed by professionals to influence and persuade you … to access your money, influence your vote, gain your obedience or to implant obsessions. Representatives of religions and political parties may want to persuade Read more…

Relief from Unwanted Emotional Habits © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching & Relationship Counseling Hysteria is an old term referring to expressions of intense emotions with persistent psychosomatic symptoms. Such symptoms may now be called conversion disorders, hysterical neurosis or histrionic personality disorder. Hypochondria is big business. About half the visits to medical doctors and at least 10% of all medical treatments are for people who have no evidence of organic disease. Hypochondriacs compulsively spend Read more…

Mother-Son Fixations 2 © Martyn Carruthers 1998-2018 Online Life Coaching for Emotional Incest . Part 2 – Men who Fixate on their Mothers Mother-son fixations are a basis for many legends, cults, myths and religions. Part 1: Little Prince Part 3: Sons and Lovers Here’s a quick check for mother-son fixation. (If you are a man – ask some trusted female friends to honestly rate you). If you have five or more YES answers, maybe Read more…

Resolving ADD & ADHD © Martyn Carruthers Online Help for Learning Disabilities 2 Children who appear to lack concentration or curiosity or who are a nuisance to teachers may be labeled learning disabled. Such children are expected to show diminished creativity, spontaneity and motivation. Such labels can devastate the lives of children who suffer from family chaos or food allergies – or those who are more intelligent than their teachers. Link to Part 1: About Read more…

Blessings or Curses? © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy Does “curse” conjure up images of witchcraft, black magic and horror movies? Some people say that they or their family seems to be cursed and describe inexplicable events that happen in families – generation after generation. Family Blessings or Family Curses Some families seem especially lucky – or unlucky. The idea of family blessings and curses being passed down from generation to Read more…

Solutions for Anger & Aggression © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching & Counseling for Anger & Hostility Anger Management Anger is a normal reaction to threats to yourself, your relationships or your values. Anger is part of life. It is problematic if it is chronic, if it causes you to act impulsively, or if it sabotages your concentration, relationships or occupation. Yet anger can empower you to challenge injustice or to change yourself. Do you Read more…

Blending Two Families © Martyn Carruthers 2008 Online Help: Coaching, Counseling & Therapy When parents remarry, the children are often confused and anxious. They may feel that they have lost a parent and gained confusion. Blending two families can lead to conflicts and obsessions. Children After Divorce After separation and divorce, many people marry again. If both partners have children, they form a new, blended family. Many remarrying parents hope that their children will effortlessly Read more…

Healing a Partnership © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching for Healthier Relationships When Western people say that they are “in a relationship“, they often refer to an uncommitted partnership. Healthy Relationships Healthy relationships appear to be built on mutual respect and shared goals, while unhealthy relationships are usually built on childish needs. Most healthy relationships seem to be those in which people value and respect the rights and responsibilities of each other. Healthy relationships seem Read more…

Are you entangled in difficult relationships or painful emotions? Do you suffer from old trauma? Do you suffer your parents’ drama, your partner’s demands, your boss’s moods?   We can help you untangle your life … and you can coach other people to reclaim their freedom. Communication You communicate while you are alive, and a huge part of your communication is non-verbal. Our systemic coach training offers you deep insights into verbal and non-verbal communication. Read more…