Goals & Well-Formed Outcomes

Table of Contents Goal Coaching & Goal Diagnosis © Martyn Carruthers 1993Desire as a Path to IntegrityUseful GoalsWhat do you NOT want?What do you want NEXT? Goal Coaching & Goal Diagnosis © Martyn Carruthers 1993 Online Help: Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy Do you know how to define goals? Relationship goals are more than a sum of individual goals. Defining and fulfilling relationship goals is essential for healthy relationships. SMART goals (an acronym used by Read more…

Systems 9: Systemic Solutions for Families

Table of Contents Family Affairs © Martyn CarruthersWhere are you now?Family Coaching & Family ContextWhere do changes start?Shhh! Don’t tell. It’s our secret.Systemic Family Coaching & CounselingWishes & DemandsQuestions for Family MeetingsIndividual Coaching within Family Coaching Family Affairs © Martyn Carruthers Online Family Coaching & Soulwork Training Do you have trouble “getting along” with your family? Do you want to manage your emotions and solve relationship issues? Where are you now? We are often asked Read more…

Systemic Coaching for Teenagers & Young Adults

Table of Contents Family and School Stress © Martyn CarruthersAdolescenceCoaching Young AdultsSolutions for ImmaturityCoaching & Counseling Teenagers Family and School Stress © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy We help people manage parent-teen relationships, including school grades and college anxieties. We help young adults untangle their lives. Adolescence Teenagers are no longer children … nor yet independent adults. They may be traveling a rocky road to adulthood – with the added burdens Read more…

Mentor Damage & Student Abuse: Part 3

Table of Contents Examples of Client Abuse © Martyn CarruthersTherapy, Counseling & Coaching are ConversationsExamples of Client Abuse Examples of Client Abuse © Martyn Carruthers Online Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy Most helping professionals are conscientious people with good intentions – and some damage the people that pay them for help. My therapist was like the loving father I never had and I would do anything he said. When he suggested a weekend together, I Read more…

Solutions for Specific Sexual Problems (3)

Table of Contents Soulwork Coaching & Training © Martyn Carruthers11. Infertility12. Masturbation (Sexual Independence?)13. Menopause14. Male Menopause (Andropause)Suggested Supplements for Older Men15. Physical, Covert & Emotional Incest16. Sexual Obsessions, Sex Addiction & Suffering Soulwork Coaching & Training © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Therapy This page is for helping professionals and responsible adults. If sexual education offends you, please retreat now. We help people who suffer from sexual issues, and wish to Read more…

Daddy’s Princess – Mother’s Rebel

Table of Contents Solutions for Parenting Problems © Martyn CarruthersEmotional Incest – A True StoryTroubled Teenagers & Silent ScreamsAttachment Disorders & Relationship BondsTeenage SexWe Help Parents Help Children Solutions for Parenting Problems © Martyn Carruthers Online Help for People with Relationship Problems Are you entangled in difficult relationships or negative emotions? Do you want to untangle your emotions and solve relationship problems? Emotional Incest – A True Story Many teenage girls suffer the consequences of Read more…

Daddy’s Little Princess (Part 2)

Table of Contents Father-Daughter Codependence © Martyn CarruthersPatterns of Love vs Patterns of NeedPrincess in a Dark TowerDaughter’s RebellionEmotions of Bonded DaughtersDaughter’s Relationship Cycles Father-Daughter Codependence © Martyn Carruthers Online Relationship Coaching, Counseling & Therapy We help people manage parental fixations and enmeshments. Continued from: Daddy’s Princess – Part 1 Patterns of Love vs Patterns of Need It is right and wonderful that parents love their daughters – as daughters. But if a father loves Read more…

Solutions for Specific Sexual Issues (2)

Table of Contents © Martyn Carruthers5. Survivors of Sexual Abuse6. Treatment for Sexual Abusers7. Male Sexual Problems8. Female Sexual Issues9. Sexual Addictions10. Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD)Solutions for Sexual Issues © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Soulwork Training We offer coaching and training on relationship and sexual happiness, resolving negative emotions and relationship entanglements. This page is for helping professionals and responsible adults. We provide coaching to people who have suffered from sexual issues, Read more…

Princess in a Dark Tower (Daddy’s Princess Part 2)

Father-Daughter Attachments © Martyn Carruthers Online Relationship Coaching, Counseling & Therapy Are you entangled with a parent? Were you abused? Are you ready to manage your fixations and enjoy emotional freedom? Continued from: Daddy’s Princess – Part 1 Solutions for Father-Daughter Fixation I wrote this to describe and clarify some common family habits and solutions. Many people avoid talking about these fixations and their consequences. If you feel strong emotions as you read this … Read more…

Little Prince Part 3: Sons & Lovers

Table of Contents Mother-Son Emotional Incest 3 © Martyn CarruthersMen who Obsess about their MothersSigns of Mother FixationLittle Prince’s Lovers & Childhood FixationsOther People’s PartnershipsSolutions for Mother-Bonded Men Mother-Son Emotional Incest 3 © Martyn Carruthers Online Counseling for Emotional Incest      Men who Obsess about their Mothers Contact us to resolve emotional and relationship problems. Do childhood memories, beliefs and habits disturb your life? Many relationship difficulties start in childhood – with parents who do Read more…