Dream Anxiety: Nightmares & Repetitive Dreams Night Dreams and Day Dreams © Martyn Carruthers We offer dream work in which we help you dismantle dreams from the inside out. Dreamwork and Dreaming Together is an integral part of our systemic psychology. Are You the Dreamer? Or are You the Dreamed? Is dreaming older than human consciousness? You have probably seen sleeping animals and babies move their limbs and body while making unusual sounds. Dreams seem Read more…
Steps to healthy relationships © Martyn Carruthers Abuse can cause identity issues, difficult emotions and self-sabotage. Forgiving or forgetting abuse is not enough, and being forced to forgive is another form of abuse. Are you Bonded to People who Abused You? Bonding is normal human behavior. Are you bonded to your occupation and country? Are you bonded to your family members? You can bond to almost anybody or anything, and your bonds will affect your Read more…
Online Help for Partnership Problems © Martyn Carruthers Arguments are part of relationships. Arguments reflect your values, beliefs, boundaries and bonds. Healthy arguments can INCREASE your happiness together. Unhealthy arguments can destroy your relationships. Arguments are essential. Arguments help you fine tune your relationships and challenge injustices. Yet some arguments may cause you to act impulsively, and sabotage your relationships. In my experience, most arguments are the definitions of words. For example, what is love Read more…
Disaster Recovery © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching for Emergency Management Planning for Crisis, Emergencies & Disaster Recovery Contingency planning and emergency preparedness are not insurance, nor do they reflect unnecessary pessimism. Organizations that practice contingency and emergency planning are more likely to survive a crisis. Solid emergency plans are good business sense. Following a disaster, the first organizations back on line are often well positioned to create new business. This is particularly relevant for Read more…
Emotional and Relationship Problems © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching, Counseling & Training Do you want dynamic training or online services for teamwork and relationships? One of our specialties is couple counseling for managers and their partners Those who can coach – do “Organizations are changing faster than at any time in history!” This could have been said by a Roman general, a medieval king or the founder of your company. Changing technology, changing markets Read more…
Prepare for Contingencies © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching & Training This is not a drill … Emergency preparedness, contingency planning, crisis management and disaster control are arts that reflect clusters of sciences and demand a huge number of skills. Well designed emergency training and well exercised contingency plans save lives and reduce property damage. Poor preparation and training can worsen the consequences of a crisis and perhaps endanger lives. Trained disaster workers can reduce Read more…
© Martyn Carruthers Online Coaching for Emotional & Relationship Problems Continued from Refugees Volunteer helpers can be a blessing when they bring needed expertise. Or they can consume food and other supplies without providing value. Trained emergency workers are more valued if they can speak the local language and empathize with local values and customs. But volunteers – even those who who lack emergency skills – can provide a wonderful service to displaced people and Read more…
Dar es Salaam, Tanzania HOPE in Swahili is TUMAINI Tumaini Kibona I organize community programs that provide prevention, care and support for orphans and vulnerable children in Tanzania. I am bilingual in English and Swahili. I ask you to help us … help children. Tumaini means hope in Swahili Hope for Orphans Tumaini Kibona PO Box 80344 Dar es Salaam, Tanzania Phone: +25 574 482 1289 or +25 574 854 8732 Hello, my name is Read more…
Hope for AIDS Orphans in Tanzania Systemic Coaching & Training in Africa We introduced systemic coaching to Africa with SABC TV (South Africa Broadcasting Corporation). We provide assistance for volunteer workers who assist AIDS orphans in East Africa and for organizations who help young people have better relationships in Nigeria. HIV and AIDS is devastating Africa. Enormous numbers of adults are living and dying with HIV/AIDS, with less access to health care than anywhere else Read more…
© Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching & Mentorship Think Globally – Act Locally As you read this – right now – about 20 million people are forcibly displaced from their homes. They are displaced by wars, famine and governments. About 7 million are in Southwest Asia (mostly Iran and Pakistan), North Africa and the Middle East; another 5 million in sub-Saharan Africa; 5 million in Europe and North America; a million more in Latin America Read more…