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Dissolve Emotional Blocks & Relationship Issues Pull Yourself Together © Martyn & Kosjenka Your maturity is a blessing for you, for your partner, for your children and for your colleagues. Emotional blocks can be you outside your awareness. They often reflect relationship problems or embarrassing experiences. They are often attached to unpleasant limiting beliefs that cause you to feel connected to important people – hence we often refer to them as bonds. If you feel Read more…

End Child Abuse © Kosjenka Muk Confusion in early family relationships can lead to confusion throughout life. Contact us to manage emotional and relationship problems. Dissolving Emotional Incest Part 1 Covert emotional incest is not just immature love or pampering children. Emotional incest means that a someone wants a child’s love as if the child were an adult, encouraging that child to behave like an adult partner. This is more common when a child lives Read more…

End Emotional Slavery © Martyn Carruthers Is your heart free for healthy relationships and joyful emotions? Do you want to manage your emotions and enjoy emotional freedom? This is NOT any Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) you may have seen promoted. We offer deep, lasting solutions for emotional and relationship problems. Can you ENJOY being You? Emotional freedom is not free. Emotional freedom comes with effort, to adults who are willing to manage their emotions and Read more…

Evaluating, Ending & Recovering from Relationships Saying Goodbye © Martyn Carruthers Separating is part of a relationship … sooner or later. Contact us for help separating and recovering peacefully. Saying “Goodbye” to Inappropriate People Have you ever liked someone but you felt that the relationship wasn’t right for a long term relationship? Or do you want to end a long-term relationship right now? Are you wasting too much time and energy? Do you love an Read more…

Solutions for Negative Emotions © Martyn Carruthers Few recovery programs work. Their effects don’t last. Changing thoughts and behaviors is not enough. Willpower and programming are often inadequate. Psychoactive drugs often delay relapses. How can you move on? Who is the “I” that is You? We help people manage emotional problems by dissolving transferences, conflicts, relationship bonds, abuse & trauma, mentor damage, codependence and entanglements. We help people find, recover and integrate themselves! Emotional Blocks Read more…

Online Solutions for Emotional Abuse Gain Peace and Find Relief © Martyn Carruthers Are you entangled in abusive relationships? Do you suffer from abuse? We can help you untangle your life and build healthy relationships. Abusive people often justify their abuse. Abused people often exaggerate. The word abuse has as many meanings as the people who use it. Ask for details … check what can be checked … before you react. Emotional abuse is about Read more…

Be reliable – but not perfect © Martyn Carruthers Do you suffer from limiting beliefs and fixations that encourage perfectionism or procrastination? Or do you cherish your ignorance? Change self-criticism to self-support. “Good enough” doesn’t mean “perfect”. End self-sabotage and move on with your life We encourage excellence – but not perfection. We help people enjoy quality lives – but not perfect lives. We support healthy relationships and quality work – and we assist people Read more…

Abuse by Authorities & Mentor Damage Entanglements with Abusers © Martyn Carruthers Are you emotionally enmeshed with an abusive authority? Do you want to untangle your life and reclaim your freedom? Were you Abused? As you read this, you may become aware of disturbing facts. Later, please talk to friends about how damage by authorities may apply to your life. Please don’t make it worse … avoid hasty conclusions or retribution. Most abusers claim good Read more…

Middle Ages © Martyn Carruthers As young adulthood ends, many people worry about their unfulfilled goals and aging bodies. They may feel trapped with a sense that time is running out. They may describe inner chaos and a feeling that they must do something extreme to regain their sanity, passion and sense of control. We can help you evaluate your life and tame your demons. We can help you improve your relationships and define new Read more…

Ego Coaching & Immaturity Egotism and Maturity © Martyn Carruthers We help people access, assimilate and integrate split-off parts of themselves, including a part often called ego. We help people understand themselves, and each other, as a basis for healthy relationships and a healthy life. What is Ego? Ego simply means I in Latin, and indicates a sense of personal identity, an essential part of the system of interacting elements commonly called your mind. Sigmund Read more…