Hawaiian Shaman: Coaching

Hawaiian Magic & Blessings © Martyn Kahekili Carruthers 1998 Online Hawaiian Shamanism Do you want to change your life? Do you want to end old influences, increase your happiness and control emotional pain? Our Hawaiian huna coaching can help you get rid of old blocks as you increase your energy, motivation and sense of life. Aloha! Pa`a ka waha! Hawaiian Spirituality . Awaiku . Healing & ‘Ohana . Ho’omanamana . Ho’oponopono Why Shamanism? Why Hawaiian? Read more

Hawaiian Spirituality & Magic

A hui hou by Martyn Kahekili Carruthers Online Huna & Ho’oponopono . Online Hawaiian Shamanism To Aunt Mona Kahele and Papa Henry Auwae: beloved kupuna, and to all my kupuna who helped me bring down the sun me ke aloha nui. E Ku … E Lono … E Kane … E Kanaloa Polynesia … a vast expanse of islands scattered across the Pacific ocean … home to the greatest voyagers and navigators of the ancient Read more

Ho’oponopono & ‘Ohana

A Hui Hou © Martyn Kahekili Carruthers To Papa Henry Auwe & Mona Kahele: kumu and kupuna … my Hawaiian teachers Auf Deutsch . Po Polsku . Hrvatski Hawaiian Spirituality . Hawaiian Shamanism ‘Oi kau ka lau, e hana i ola honua Live your life while the sun still shines Let’s start with a Hawaiian perspective that illness reflects a lack of balance between pono (living right) and mana (life energy). Imbalances between pono and Read more

Online Solutions for Sexual Health

Healthy Sexuality © Martyn Carruthers We help people solve relationship problems that often cause or underlie sexual issues. Sex & Motivation Human motivation and creativity reflect human sexuality. We help people find healthy partners, become good parents, protect children and raise children to become independent. We also help adults unblock their creativity and sexuality. As sexuality touches almost every part of life, any issue connected to sexuality will generate emotional and political controversy. While pornography Read more

Benefits of Disease Symptoms

When Disease Makes Sense © Martyn Carruthers Who benefits from the symptoms of their illnesses? Psychosomatic Disease . Autoimmune Disease . Pain Control When do Disease Symptoms make Sense? Some disease symptoms appear to provide benefits. Some benefits are conscious (e.g. staying home from work) and some unconscious (e.g. getting attention). Yet if we explore the benefits of disease symptoms in people’s relationships, we often find that those symptoms make a different kind of sense. Read more

Meaning and Sense of Life

Rekindle your Inner Spirit © Martyn Carruthers Do you enjoy an emotionally satisfying life? Can you express love and be kind? Can you share happiness? Victor Frankl from Man’s Search for Meaning Ultimately, man should not ask for the meaning of his life, but rather must recognize that it is he who is asked. Each man is questioned by life; and he can only answer to life by answering for his own life; to life Read more

Addictive Relationships & Sex Addiction

End Codependence & Addictions © Martyn Carruthers, 2002 Abusive and addictive relationships hurt families and damage children. Help for Love and Sex Addicts Loving someone who loves you can be wonderful, while feeling addicted to your fantasies and fixating on people who remind you of your fantasies can be torture. Do you feel trapped in symbiotic or codependent relationships ? Being with people who reflect your fantasies can trigger your brain to make endorphins – Read more

Making Space for Healthy Relationships

Negative Emotions & Relationship Problems © Martyn Carruthers We offer coaching, seminars and mentorship on lasting happiness, family constellations, resolving family problems and dissolving toxic beliefs. Do you feel betrayed by love? What is Love? Love may have more definitions than any other word. The question “What is love?” can fuel endless discussion, debate and arguments. Ask it and you will likely hear: love is everything; love is nothing; love is God; love is sacrifice; Read more

Identity Loss & Bonds, Fixations & Behavior – 2

Freedom from Self-Sabotage © Martyn Carruthers 1999 Although I help people resolve emotional issues and change beliefs, I am told that some people reading this will feel unable to focus or concentrate on my words. If you feel stuck, email me. Part 1. Introduction to Bonds  .  Part 3. Resolve Emotional Bonds Part 2: Identity Loss & Bonds As I researched the structure of beliefs … again and again I found that loss of personal Read more

Recognize Fake or Counterfeit Love

Find Yourself © Martyn Carruthers Are you entangled in difficult relationships or painful emotions? Do you suffer from your parents’ drama or your partner’s demands? We can help you untangle your life. When Love is Counterfeit If you enjoy exploring, and you are in Warsaw, Poland, take a morning tram to Rondo Waszyngtona. Follow the crowd and you will soon find yourself in the Stadion Dziesięciolecia, called the Russian Market by the linguistically challenged. It Read more