Mature & Immature Love © Martyn Carruthers I wanted to map the consequences of mature love and immature infatuation – the path of healthy partnership vs shallow affairs. Do you want to better understand your relationship habits and fulfill your dreams of happy partnership. Many couples start partnerships based on Read more…
Mature and Immature Love © Martyn Carruthers This is part 2 about the differences between infatuation and love – and between immature affairs and mature partnership. I wrote this for people who want to solve relationship problems … for people who want to share lives together. Wherever I teach, women Read more…
© Martyn Carruthers Our couple coaching does not replace life coaching, marriage counseling or psychotherapy. Each is useful for different problems. Our couple coaching is for couples who want to cooperate and make better decisions together. Communication Exercise: Just Listening These exercises help motivated adults to better understand their partners’ Read more…
End Relationship Conflicts © Martyn Carruthers We help people resolve emotional and relationship problems. We can encourage you to make decisions – but we do not make decisions for you. We can encourage you to see other points of view – but we do not take sides. We can support Read more…
Don’t Give Up Too Quickly © Martyn Carruthers Are you or your partner enmeshed in difficult or painful emotions? Do you suffer from your parents’ drama, or from your partner’s parents? Do you want to untangle your lives … as you reclaim your freedom … together? Contact us to resolve Read more…
Solutions for Negative Emotions © Martyn Carruthers Are your emotions appropriate for what is happening now? Or are they left over from earlier dramas – perhaps from when you were 4 or 14 years old? Or are they “other people’s” emotions that you are expressing for them? Emotional problems refers Read more…
End the sabotage! © Martyn Carruthers We encourage you to make decisions – and we do not make decisions for you. We encourage you to see other points of view – and we do not take sides. We support your choices – and we do not pressure you to change. Read more…
Solve Partnership Issues © Martyn Carruthers Happy partnership is not about finding a perfect partner. Happy partnership is about resolving conflicts together. Continued from Solutions for Couple Conflict Real partners have real conflicts, discussions and arguments Do you want a “happy ever after“? If you and your partner have no Read more…
Solutions from the Edge of Chaos © Martyn Carruthers 2002 Creative Chaos in Coaching & Therapy (part 2) Your life reflects a complex phase space, with vast information enfolded around the organizing principle of your identity. You can change your identity to prosper in complexity and to survive chaos. You Read more…
Breakthrough or Breakdown? © Martyn Carruthers2004 Our work encourages a joyful expression of life that brings insight and understanding. We help people manage difficult emotions and solve relationship problems. As soon as the rush is over, I’m going to have a nervous breakdown! I worked hard for it, I owe Read more…