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PASS, Depression & Guilt © Martyn Carruthers 1998 Online Help: Coaching, Counseling & Therapy If sense of life can be replaced by guilt, shame and depression, then abortion is a deeply spiritual issue. If you feel emotional as you read this – consider contacting us. 1: Consequences of Abortion : 2: Relationship Consequences of Abortion Spiritual Consequences of Abortion Abortion offers high incomes for those people who are able and willing to provide it. Whether Read more…

Solutions for Guilt, Anxiety & Sadness © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching & Counseling following a Suicide We do not seek suicidal clients and we refer suicidal people to hot-lines. If someone hints that he or she may suicide, promptly refer that person to an appropriate health professional. (Telephone a suicide hot-line or the police or a hospital yourself if you don’t know or can’t find a health professional) After a suicide of a family Read more…

Expressing Injustice © Martyn Carruthers Online Help: Coaching, Counseling & Therapy Anger is a normal reaction to injustice or to threats. Yet uncontrolled anger can damage your body and your relationships. Do you want to manage your anger? You have probably experienced anger on a spectrum from mild irritation to fury. Anger can motivate creation – and anger can motivate destruction, health problems and relationship damage. Anger can put you in hospital or in prison Read more…

Can’t Sleep? Improve your Relationships! © Martyn Carruthers How well do you sleep? Most people experience sleep problems sometimes. People who ignore these problems may have sleeping habits that interfere with their lives. Sleep patterns are often disturbed by stress, relationships, family challenges, age and health issues. People who feel stressed may experience difficulties sleeping – and difficulty sleeping may increase stress. We help people who: have unsatisfying sleep have difficulty falling asleep wake up Read more…

Recovery from Trauma & Abuse © Martyn Carruthers Online Life Coaching & Counseling for Emotional Intelligence Few recovery programs work. The effects of recovery programs rarely last. Changing thoughts and behaviors is is not enough. Willpower, hypnotic programming and prayer rarely provide lasting results, and psychoactive drugs often only delay a relapse. Who is the “I” that is you? Many emotional outbursts, compulsions and other problematic habits indicate identity loss, in which people lose their Read more…

Healing grief and sadness © Martyn Carruthers Online Systemic Coaching, Counseling & Training Miscarriages happen during the first 20 weeks of a pregnancy. After 20 weeks, a spontaneous abortion is usually called stillbirth. About 20% of all human pregnancies end in miscarriage or stillbirth. Deaths of babies often have heavy consequences on family members. People affected by a miscarriage or still-birth may feel disconnected from their friends and partners, from their families and communities, and Read more…

Dogs and cats can be people too © Martyn Carruthers Online Solutions for Emotional and Relationship Issues Few people treat human beings as substitutes for pets, yet many people treat pets as substitutes for people. Family pets may be substitutes for missing children, absent partners, missing siblings or missing family members. We can also help you sort out your emotions and relationships with pets. Healing Relationships with Pets You may feel loved by pets in Read more…

Freedom from fear © Martyn Carruthers Online Help: Coaching, Counseling & Therapy Do you often feel anxious? Are you sometimes scared? Do you worry unduly? Do you want to manage anxiety, fear or worry? Anxiety, Fear & Worry Anxiety, fear & worry are unpleasant emotions that motivate people to avoid certain situations; but these emotions can also cause adults to feel powerless and act like children. We help people manage and change emotions that prevent Read more…

Dissolving Childhood Trauma © Martyn Carruthers Online Help: Coaching, Counseling & Therapy Many adults suffer from childhood trauma. Do you suffer from your parents’ drama or conflicts? Do you want to free yourself from toxic family attachments? Relationship goals can include a desire for partnership or parenthood, etc, or can be the shared goals of partners, families and teams. Relationships can be strongly influenced by relationship entanglements, fixations and bonds. Relationship bonds refer to obsessive Read more…

Untangle Bonded Relationships © Martyn Carruthers Click HERE to make an appointment! It’s a sad fact that many adults still suffer from childhood trauma. Do you suffer from your parents’ drama? Do you want to untangle yourself? I developed systemic solutions to help people define and achieve relationship goals. Relationship goals can be a desire for friendship, partnership or parenthood, etc, or can be the shared goals of partners, families and teams. As relationships can Read more…