Managing negative emotions © Martyn Carruthers Were you prescribed drugs as a poor substitute for improving your relationships? Self-medication with alcohol or nicotine, or other-medication with prescription anti-depressants or stimulants, is easier than applying intelligence, maturity and relationship skills to complex relationship issues – but … Drugs are cheaper for Read more…
When adults act like children © Martyn Carruthers Do you want to end emotional stress, limiting beliefs or toxic relationships? Can you Cope with Change? Stress is a normal part of life, and stress reactions can interfere with study, work, and relationships. Many reactions are are delayed, with people reacting Read more…
Solve Relationship Problems © Martyn Carruthers The consequences of attachment disorders include family members who feel disconnected from each other. Dissolving Adult Attachment Disorders People who did not enjoy their connections with their parents or caregivers may suffer from attachment disorders. Can you trust people? Unresolved attachment issues can prevent Read more…
Effective Information Flow © Martyn Carruthers If you can recall useful data from raw experience, you can use that data to predict future patterns. Your data has become information. If you use this information in a defined context, it becomes knowledge – a basis for decisions. If you can survive Read more…
End self-destruction and suffering! © Martyn Carruthers We offer training and counseling on systemic coaching, developmental disorders and solving relationship problems. Link to Part 2 – Personality Disorders Developmental Disorders and Personality Disorders are opinions used by psychology and health professionals to help determine appropriate treatments. Note that few opinions Read more…
End self-sabotage & self-destruction © Martyn Carruthers We offer relationship coaching for resolving family chaos and emotional challenges. Warning: You may find that some of these symptoms apply to you. Most normal people experience many of these symptoms from time to time, and some are requirements for various occupations! Part Read more…
Presented to: Gdansk Psychology Conference © Martyn Carruthers, 2001 Part 1: Diagnosis of Mental Illness Systemic Coaching Success in any field can be inhibited by behaviors and symptoms generically called mental illness. These symptoms can affect people of all ages, races, cultures and class. They range from acute, short-term distress Read more…
Presented to Gdansk Psychology Conference © Martyn Carruthers, 2001 I wish to thank the professors and students of Gdansk University for inviting me to your beautiful city. I hope that you will find this talk interesting, and that you will attend the demonstrations of systemic psychology that I will present Read more…
Drugs and relationship problems © Martyn Carruthers It is easier for health professionals to use drugs as a substitute for change. Alcohol, nicotine or prescription anti-depressants and stimulants are simpler than applying intelligence and analytical skills to relationship problems and negative emotions. Women taking medication are wise to seek medical Read more…
Solutions for Partnership Conflicts 2 © Martyn Carruthers Real partners have real conflicts We help people manage relationship problems, restore their partnership, build healthy partnerships – or gently separate. Continued from Part 1: Partnership Breakdown Part 1 was about the situations and events that lead to a partnership crisis. Useful Read more…