Abuso - Coaching sistemico integrativo

Lavorare con gli abusatori e le vittime di abusi

da KosjenkaM | 3.Apr. 2018 | Nuovi articoli, Abuso, Coaching

If for whatever reason you are interested to learn about the topic of abuse, I strongly recommend the book “Why Does He Do That?” by Lundy Bancroft. This book is especially useful for dismantling some common myths about what causes abuse and violence...

Come difendersi da soli

da KosjenkaM | 24.Lug. 2018 | Nuovi articoli, Abuso, Comunicazione

Protecting one’s own personal boundaries and finding balance with other people, whether family or strangers, and often in subtle ways, are everyday parts of a human life. Testing and pushing on others’ boundaries is normal in a relationship of a child to a...

Come perdonare veramente ed essere perdonati?

da KosjenkaM | 4.Set. 2019 | Benessere emotivo, Abuso, Integrità

Perché a volte è così difficile perdonare? Molti libri New Age e di auto-aiuto dicono che, per raggiungere la pace interiore, dobbiamo perdonare le persone che ci hanno ferito. Un messaggio comune su come farlo è qualcosa del tipo: decidi di perdonare! Oppure vi istruiscono...

Sei stato maltrattato?

da KosjenkaM | 8.Set. 2019 | Abuso

photo by: Daniele Levis Pelusi What is “normal”? When I was in my first year at uni, we had a discussion about what is actually a behavioral disorder. Long story short, the professor’s conclusion was that a behavioral disorder is defined not...

Le persone buone possono essere abusanti?

da KosjenkaM | 7.Nov. 2022 | Abuso

How and why can good people be abusers? In short: yes, it is sometimes possible for otherwise good people to be abusers in close relationships. I had (at least) one such in my family; I worked as a coach with several of them. Although I don’t specialize in abuse...

Come liberarsi dal legame del trauma

da KosjenkaM | 4.Ago. 2024 | Abuso, Coaching, Crescita personale

Question: Close to a year ago, I got out of an abusive relationship. However, I still feel a deep connection with my ex. It’s difficult to stop thinking about them and wishing they could change. I read it’s called trauma bond. But why does it persist for...