da KosjenkaM | 4.Ago. 2024 | Comunicazione, Autostima
photo credit: Camila Quintero Franco Question: My ex told me I was boring. It hurts, of course. I’m not sure what to think or do about it. I’m not even sure if I really want to change. But, of course, I would like people to find me interesting. I don’t like the...
da KosjenkaM | 4.Ago. 2024 | Benessere emotivo, Integrità, Autostima
Question: Where is the middle ground between “stop caring about what others think” & “stop being so selfish”? photo by Leio McLaren Answer: Both caring about what other people think and selfishness are parts of our biological makeup, as well as our upbringing....
da KosjenkaM | 4.Ago. 2024 | Benessere emotivo, Autostima
Question: I’m lonely and feel unattractive. I have difficulties connecting with people. How can I stop feeling that no one will ever love me? Answer: Did you feel loved as a child? Our expectations of the world are based on our experiences with our...
da KosjenkaM | 29.Set. 2024 | Amore e intimità, Autostima
Question: I recently went through an unexpected breakup, and I’m finding it very hard to move on. I can’t stop thinking about my ex, and it feels like nothing makes sense without them. I know I need to heal, but I don’t even know where to start. How to...
da KosjenkaM | 22.Ott. 2024 | Nuovi articoli, Benessere emotivo, Crescita personale, Autostima
Molte persone non sono emotivamente sane e mature. È ovvio che molte relazioni, se non la maggior parte, falliscono (anche se ci sono ancora molte relazioni sane e felici). Potrebbe essere necessario molto tempo per imparare le abilità di coppia e per trovare...
da KosjenkaM | 24.Nov. 2024 | Abuso, Comunicazione, Nuovi articoli, Autostima
My core topic is emotional maturity, so it’s expected that I’d always advise polite and de-escalating communication—and so I do. However, that kind of communication only works with fundamentally well-meaning people, which is not everybody. Some people love...