da KosjenkaM | 31.Mag. 2018 | Amore e intimità
Trying to change a partner When I work with couples (and individuals, too), in their bitter criticisms of their partners I can often guess what a person wanted to say to their parents, but for whatever reasons couldn’t or didn’t dare. (Sometimes I...
da KosjenkaM | 19.Giu. 2019 | Amore e intimità, Nuovi articoli
The paradox of (in)security Deep closeness and understanding in a good lasting relationship is one of the best experiences in life. On the other side, the idea that we can “own” someone’s emotions, or that we can control life, is unrealistic and...
da KosjenkaM | 11.Ott. 2019 | Amore e intimità, Nuovi articoli
If you ask yourself what did you learn from your parents about love – from each of them separately, as well as from their relationship – you could come to interesting insights. But our conscious answers are just the top of the iceberg, while most of our...
da KosjenkaM | 23.Dic. 2019 | Amore e intimità
Feelings from childhood Being left by someone is hard on both our ego and our inner child. Suddenly losing a source of human connection and attention—whether we appreciated it or took it for granted—often triggers childhood memories of loss and abandonment, sometimes...
da KosjenkaM | 29.Dic. 2019 | Amore e intimità
Circa la metà dei miei clienti viene a lavorare con me a causa di problemi nelle relazioni amorose, il che significa che ho sentito infinite variazioni di storie d'amore e giochi d'amore. La maggior parte di queste varianti include persone che si lasciano trasportare da emozioni infantili, ignorando gli avvertimenti...
da KosjenkaM | 22.Apr. 2020 | Amore e intimità, Comunicazione, Nuovi articoli
photo by: Roman Craft Every relationship has its problems and it is not realistic to think we will always have an understanding, agreement and great communication with a partner. A relatively common problem is when one person expects that they shouldn’t have to...