改变有毒习惯的 11 个技巧

  How many times did you make such a decision: starting tomorrow, I will quit smoking, biting my nails, overeating, drinking coffee… or: I will start exercising, watch less television, be more organized… Typically, such decisions appear easy to...

你太敏感了吗?

  Emotional “hypersensitivity” is a relative category, just like various types of sensory sensitivities. Can somebody tell you that you are “overly sensitive” to chili, for example? People are differently sensitive to sounds, smells,...

受虐狂的治疗

  情感受虐狂 许多人在某种程度上与苦难结下了不解之缘。在孩提时代,他们可能就知道如果自己受苦,就会得到奖励或安慰,或者他们可能观察到受苦的人得到特殊照顾和安慰。

恐惧的礼物(和一些回忆)

  “Intuition is always right in at least two important ways:1. It is always in response to something.2. It always has your best interest at heart.(…) Our interpretation of intuition is not always right.”Gavin de Becker, The Gift of Fear This time I want to...

饮食、压力和焦虑

A danger in any therapy practice is if a therapist only focuses on one aspect of the problem – usually the one (s)he is specialized in. While most emotional issues have at least some psychological components that can be addressed through therapy, it’s important to...

关于情感成熟的问答

  Recently I had an interesting philosophical discussion about what “mature behavior” and “mature emotions” actually are, and according to which (and whose) criteria are they defined. Some of the criteria I already wrote about in the...
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