??? コジェンカM | 18.5?. 2014 | コーチング
“I wasted my youth and my health fighting for imperial ambitions of greedy psychopaths, all the time believing I was protecting my beloved country.” (quote from an ex soldier) War trauma and working with war veterans is not one of my specialties....
??? コジェンカM | 16.6?. 2015 | コーチング, 家族と子供たち
While more than 90% of people?s emotional problems seem to originate in childhood (or are at least enhanced by early family), from time to time it?s an interesting experience to work with people who come from healthy, caring and quite mature families. (Some people who...
??? コジェンカM | 21.8?. 2015 | 誠実さ, コーチング
Many times, resolving childish emotions, internal conflicts, and toxic beliefs can make difficult decisions much easier. You might recognize, for example, that your partner is not your child, and it?s not your responsibility to make them happy. Or you might resolve...
??? コジェンカM | 13.10?. 2015 | コーチング, 個人の成長
Even when we are well aware that our strong emotions might be awakened memories from childhood, we might still find it very difficult to focus inwards to resolve those emotions. The urge to blame people around us and seek to change or control them can be overpowering....
??? コジェンカM | 12.12?. 2015 | エモーショナル・ウェルビーイング, コーチング
A danger in any therapy practice is if a therapist only focuses on one aspect of the problem ? usually the one (s)he is specialized in. While most emotional issues have at least some psychological components that can be addressed through therapy, it?s important to...
??? コジェンカM | 28.1?. 2016 | エモーショナル・ウェルビーイング, コーチング, おすすめ記事
最近、私が担当したクライアントの言葉だ:"私は自分自身に価値を見出せない。だから、もし女の子が私に恋をしたら、私は自動的にその女の子を尊敬しなくなる"少し考えさせてほしい。事実上、この一文に一冊の小説が収められている。