執筆者 コジェンカM | 6.8月. 2015 | コミュニケーション
Among many other details when it comes to relationships and communication, it’s useful to be aware of the difference between two basic ways to express a wish or a request: directing and informing. Directing style expresses a wish, a request or a demand directly: “Shut...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 21.8月. 2015 | 誠実さ, コーチング
Many times, resolving childish emotions, internal conflicts, and toxic beliefs can make difficult decisions much easier. You might recognize, for example, that your partner is not your child, and it’s not your responsibility to make them happy. Or you might resolve...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 13.10月. 2015 | コーチング, 個人の成長
強い感情が幼少期の記憶を呼び覚ましたものだと気づいていても、その感情を解決するために内側に集中するのはとても難しい。周囲の人々を非難し、彼らを変えよう、コントロールしようとする衝動に押しつぶされそうになることもある......。
執筆者 コジェンカM | 12.12月. 2015 | エモーショナル・ウェルビーイング, コーチング
A danger in any therapy practice is if a therapist only focuses on one aspect of the problem – usually the one (s)he is specialized in. While most emotional issues have at least some psychological components that can be addressed through therapy, it’s important to...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 16.1月. 2016 | 新しい記事, 誠実さ, 社会
This is, admittedly, a rather clickbaity title. But the article won’t disappoint. If nothing else, it’s easy to be aware of our own problems and not notice things other people face, and learning about them might help everybody be kinder to each other. For...