par KosjenkaM | 4.Août. 2024 | Communication, Estime de soi
photo credit: Camila Quintero Franco Question: My ex told me I was boring. It hurts, of course. I’m not sure what to think or do about it. I’m not even sure if I really want to change. But, of course, I would like people to find me interesting. I don’t like the...
par KosjenkaM | 4.Août. 2024 | Le bien-être émotionnel, Intégrité, Estime de soi
Question: Where is the middle ground between “stop caring about what others think” & “stop being so selfish”? photo by Leio McLaren Answer: Both caring about what other people think and selfishness are parts of our biological makeup, as well as our upbringing....
par KosjenkaM | 4.Août. 2024 | Le bien-être émotionnel, Estime de soi
Question: I’m lonely and feel unattractive. I have difficulties connecting with people. How can I stop feeling that no one will ever love me? Answer: Did you feel loved as a child? Our expectations of the world are based on our experiences with our...
par KosjenkaM | 29.sep. 2024 | Amour & Intimité, Estime de soi
Question: I recently went through an unexpected breakup, and I’m finding it very hard to move on. I can’t stop thinking about my ex, and it feels like nothing makes sense without them. I know I need to heal, but I don’t even know where to start. How to...
par KosjenkaM | 22.oct. 2024 | Nouveaux articles, Le bien-être émotionnel, Croissance personnelle, Estime de soi
De nombreuses personnes ne sont pas émotionnellement saines et matures. Il est donc logique que de nombreuses relations, si ce n'est la plupart, échouent (bien qu'il existe encore un grand nombre de relations saines et heureuses). Il faut parfois beaucoup de temps pour acquérir des compétences en matière de...
par KosjenkaM | 24.nov. 2024 | Abus, Communication, Nouveaux articles, Estime de soi
My core topic is emotional maturity, so it’s expected that I’d always advise polite and de-escalating communication—and so I do. However, that kind of communication only works with fundamentally well-meaning people, which is not everybody. Some people love...