par KosjenkaM | 31.Mai. 2018 | Amour & Intimité
Trying to change a partner When I work with couples (and individuals, too), in their bitter criticisms of their partners I can often guess what a person wanted to say to their parents, but for whatever reasons couldn’t or didn’t dare. (Sometimes I...
par KosjenkaM | 19.Juin. 2019 | Amour & Intimité, Nouveaux articles
The paradox of (in)security Deep closeness and understanding in a good lasting relationship is one of the best experiences in life. On the other side, the idea that we can “own” someone’s emotions, or that we can control life, is unrealistic and...
par KosjenkaM | 11.oct. 2019 | Amour & Intimité, Nouveaux articles
If you ask yourself what did you learn from your parents about love – from each of them separately, as well as from their relationship – you could come to interesting insights. But our conscious answers are just the top of the iceberg, while most of our...
par KosjenkaM | 23.Déc. 2019 | Amour & Intimité
Les sentiments de l'enfance Être quitté par quelqu'un est difficile pour notre ego et notre enfant intérieur. La perte soudaine d'une source de liens humains et d'attention - que nous l'ayons appréciée ou considérée comme acquise - déclenche souvent des souvenirs d'enfance de perte et d'abandon, parfois...
par KosjenkaM | 29.Déc. 2019 | Amour & Intimité
Environ la moitié de mes clients viennent me voir pour des problèmes de relations amoureuses, ce qui signifie que j'ai entendu d'innombrables variations d'histoires d'amour et de jeux amoureux. La plupart de ces variations incluent des personnes qui se laissent emporter par des émotions enfantines, ignorant les avertissements...
par KosjenkaM | 22.Avr. 2020 | Amour & Intimité, Communication, Nouveaux articles
Every relationship has its problems and it is not realistic to think we will always have an understanding, agreement and an idyllic relationship with a partner. A relatively common problem is when one person expects that they shouldn’t have to express their...