par KosjenkaM | 3.Avr. 2018 | Nouveaux articles, Abus, Coaching
If for whatever reason you are interested to learn about the topic of abuse, I strongly recommend the book “Why Does He Do That?” by Lundy Bancroft. This book is especially useful for dismantling some common myths about what causes abuse and violence...
par KosjenkaM | 24.Juil. 2018 | Nouveaux articles, Abus, Communication
Protecting one’s own personal boundaries and finding balance with other people, whether family or strangers, and often in subtle ways, are everyday parts of a human life. Testing and pushing on others’ boundaries is normal in a relationship of a child to a...
par KosjenkaM | 4.Sep. 2019 | Le bien-être émotionnel, Abus, Intégrité
Pourquoi est-il parfois si difficile de pardonner ? De nombreux livres du Nouvel Âge et de développement personnel affirment que, pour atteindre la paix intérieure, nous devons pardonner aux personnes qui nous ont fait du mal. Un message courant sur la manière de le faire est quelque chose comme : décidez simplement de pardonner ! Ou bien on vous dit...
par KosjenkaM | 8.Sep. 2019 | Abus
photo by: Daniele Levis Pelusi What is “normal”? When I was in my first year at uni, we had a discussion about what is actually a behavioral disorder. Long story short, the professor’s conclusion was that a behavioral disorder is defined not...
par KosjenkaM | 7.nov. 2022 | Abus
How and why can good people be abusers? In short: yes, it is sometimes possible for otherwise good people to be abusers in close relationships. I had (at least) one such in my family; I worked as a coach with several of them. Although I don’t specialize in abuse...
par KosjenkaM | 4.Août. 2024 | Abus, Coaching, Croissance personnelle
Question: Close to a year ago, I got out of an abusive relationship. However, I still feel a deep connection with my ex. It’s difficult to stop thinking about them and wishing they could change. I read it’s called trauma bond. But why does it persist for...