Abuso - Coaching Sistémico Integrativo

Trabajo con los abusadores y las víctimas de abusos

por KosjenkaM | 3.Abr. 2018 | Nuevos Artículos, Abuso, Coaching

If for whatever reason you are interested to learn about the topic of abuse, I strongly recommend the book “Why Does He Do That?” by Lundy Bancroft. This book is especially useful for dismantling some common myths about what causes abuse and violence...

Cómo defenderse a sí mismo

por KosjenkaM | 24.jul. 2018 | Nuevos Artículos, Abuso, Comunicación

Protecting one’s own personal boundaries and finding balance with other people, whether family or strangers, and often in subtle ways, are everyday parts of a human life. Testing and pushing on others’ boundaries is normal in a relationship of a child to a...

¿Cómo perdonar de verdad y ser perdonado?

por KosjenkaM | 4.Sep. 2019 | Bienestar emocional, Abuso, Integridad

¿Por qué a veces es tan difícil perdonar? Muchos libros de la Nueva Era y de autoayuda dicen que, para alcanzar la paz interior, tenemos que perdonar a las personas que nos han hecho daño. Un mensaje habitual sobre cómo hacerlo es algo así como: ¡decide perdonar! O pueden darte instrucciones...

¿Está siendo abusado?

por KosjenkaM | 8.Sep. 2019 | Abuso

photo by: Daniele Levis Pelusi What is “normal”? When I was in my first year at uni, we had a discussion about what is actually a behavioral disorder. Long story short, the professor’s conclusion was that a behavioral disorder is defined not...

¿Pueden las personas buenas ser maltratadoras?

por KosjenkaM | 7.Nov. 2022 | Abuso

How and why can good people be abusers? In short: yes, it is sometimes possible for otherwise good people to be abusers in close relationships. I had (at least) one such in my family; I worked as a coach with several of them. Although I don’t specialize in abuse...

Cómo liberarse del vínculo traumático

por KosjenkaM | 4.Ago. 2024 | Abuso, Coaching, Crecimiento personal

Question: Close to a year ago, I got out of an abusive relationship. However, I still feel a deep connection with my ex. It’s difficult to stop thinking about them and wishing they could change. I read it’s called trauma bond. But why does it persist for...