von KosjenkaM | 23.Juni. 2012 | Liebe & Intimität
If you look around a bit, it seems that in most “stable” relationships partners communicate more through grumbling and sarcasm, than with warmth and respect. These same partners, if somebody years ago suggested that they sit down and make a serious...
von KosjenkaM | 13.Sep.. 2012 | Emotionales Wohlbefinden, Liebe & Intimität
Es überrascht mich manchmal, wie viele Menschen sagen, dass die Angst vor dem Alleinsein sie dazu bringt, in unangenehmen, ungesunden oder sogar gewalttätigen Beziehungen zu bleiben. Ich persönlich bin gerne allein, auch wenn ich eine gute, auf Vertrauen basierende Beziehung viel lieber mag. Die Angst vor dem Alleinsein ist eigentlich...
von KosjenkaM | 23.Nov.. 2012 | Liebe & Intimität
I have written before about psychological background of disease, and sexual problems are often obvious examples of psychosomatic symptoms. If you have done your medical tests and the results didn’t show any physical issues that would cause a problem, it is time...
von KosjenkaM | 8.Juli. 2015 | Liebe & Intimität, Missbrauch
A common pattern in unhealthy relationships is when (at least) one of the partners takes the other for granted, perhaps being aggressive, manipulative or dismissive – but when the other partner decides to leave, the first suddenly starts acting like an...
von KosjenkaM | 11.Feb.. 2016 | Liebe & Intimität
Sometimes people ask me if it’s OK for them or their partner to stay in touch with an ex after starting a new relationship. If you have been reading my posts and articles for a while, you will know that I avoid categorical judgments about “right” and...
von KosjenkaM | 23.Feb.. 2016 | Liebe & Intimität, Missbrauch
Incompatibility is fairly common in relationships, which means there are plenty of potential red flags of incompatibility depending of one’s values and personal traits. However, sometimes you might not simply be incompatible with a love interest, but you might...