von KosjenkaM | 3.Apr.. 2018 | Neue Artikel, Missbrauch, Coaching
If for whatever reason you are interested to learn about the topic of abuse, I strongly recommend the book “Why Does He Do That?” by Lundy Bancroft. This book is especially useful for dismantling some common myths about what causes abuse and violence...
von KosjenkaM | 24.Juli. 2018 | Neue Artikel, Missbrauch, Kommunikation
Protecting one’s own personal boundaries and finding balance with other people, whether family or strangers, and often in subtle ways, are everyday parts of a human life. Testing and pushing on others’ boundaries is normal in a relationship of a child to a...
von KosjenkaM | 4.Sep. 2019 | Emotionales Wohlbefinden, Missbrauch, Integrität
Warum ist es manchmal so schwierig, zu vergeben? In vielen New Age- und Selbsthilfebüchern heißt es, dass wir Menschen, die uns verletzt haben, vergeben müssen, um inneren Frieden zu erlangen. Eine häufige Botschaft darüber, wie man es tatsächlich tut, ist so etwas wie: Entscheiden Sie sich einfach, zu vergeben! Oder sie leiten Sie an...
von KosjenkaM | 8.Sep. 2019 | Missbrauch
photo by: Daniele Levis Pelusi What is “normal”? When I was in my first year at uni, we had a discussion about what is actually a behavioral disorder. Long story short, the professor’s conclusion was that a behavioral disorder is defined not...
von KosjenkaM | 7.November... 2022 | Missbrauch
How and why can good people be abusers? In short: yes, it is sometimes possible for otherwise good people to be abusers in close relationships. I had (at least) one such in my family; I worked as a coach with several of them. Although I don’t specialize in abuse...
von KosjenkaM | 4.Aug.. 2024 | Missbrauch, Coaching, Persönliches Wachstum
Question: Close to a year ago, I got out of an abusive relationship. However, I still feel a deep connection with my ex. It’s difficult to stop thinking about them and wishing they could change. I read it’s called trauma bond. But why does it persist for...
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