由 KosjenkaM | 24.4 月. 2005 | 诚信, 个人成长, 推荐文章
这是我 2005 年为我的第一个网站写的第一篇文章,至今仍是我最喜欢的文章之一。在我十多岁和二十出头的时候,我花了几年时间理想主义地探索新纪元的方法和社区。我遇到了一些非常好的、聪明的、有责任感的...
由 KosjenkaM | 17.12 月. 2005 | 情绪健康, 灵感, 推荐文章
Every method of personal development that requires clients’ cooperation and emotional involvement, assumes that the clients will have adequate awareness of their emotions for the work to be successful. It’s unusual to find books or workshops that include a...
由 KosjenkaM | 22.1 月. 2006 | 情绪健康, 灵感, 推荐文章
At the root of much immature behavior is an urge to avoid unpleasant feelings. Practicing observing our feelings is the foundation of self-improvement – as well as being one of the most natural, simple and actually pleasant exercises of self-awareness....
由 KosjenkaM | 2.2 月. 2006 | 情绪健康, 个人成长, 推荐文章
Not many people ever think of the term ’emotional maturity,’ and yet it’s just as important as intellectual or physical maturity. I once read that many people stop emotionally maturing at the end of adolescence, while other authors claim emotional...
由 KosjenkaM | 17.1 月. 2016 | 情绪健康, 诚信, 推荐文章
Recently I had an interesting philosophical discussion about what “mature behavior” and “mature emotions” actually are, and according to which (and whose) criteria are they defined. Some of the criteria I already wrote about in the...
由 KosjenkaM | 28.1 月. 2016 | 情绪健康, 教练, 推荐文章
A quote from a client I was working with recently: “I don’t value myself, so if a girl falls in love with me, I automatically respect her less.” Let that sink in for a moment. Practically a whole novel is contained in this one sentence (as well as...