爱与亲密关系 - 综合系统辅导

当伴侣成为父母的替代品时会发生什么？

由 KosjenkaM | 31.5 月. 2018 | 爱与亲密关系

Trying to change a partner When I work with couples (and individuals, too), in their bitter criticisms of their partners I can often guess what a person wanted to say to their parents, but for whatever reasons couldn’t or didn’t dare. (Sometimes I...

事务：谁、为什么以及如何继续前进

由 KosjenkaM | 19.6 月. 2019 | 爱与亲密关系, 新文章

The paradox of (in)security Deep closeness and understanding in a good lasting relationship is one of the best experiences in life. On the other side, the idea that we can “own” someone’s emotions, or that we can control life, is unrealistic and...

你的潜意识相信什么是爱？

由 KosjenkaM | 11.10 月. 2019 | 爱与亲密关系, 新文章

If you ask yourself what did you learn from your parents about love – from each of them separately, as well as from their relationship – you could come to interesting insights. But our conscious answers are just the top of the iceberg, while most of our...

试图挽回失去的爱情

由 KosjenkaM | 23.12 月. 2019 | 爱与亲密关系

Feelings from childhood Being left by someone is hard on both our ego and our inner child. Suddenly losing a source of human connection and attention—whether we appreciated it or took it for granted—often triggers childhood memories of loss and abandonment, sometimes...

关于恋爱的 20 多节必修课

由 KosjenkaM | 29.12 月. 2019 | 爱与亲密关系

我的客户中，大约有一半是因为爱情关系出现问题而与我合作，这意味着我听过无穷无尽的爱情故事和爱情游戏。这些变体大多包括人们被幼稚的情感冲昏了头脑，忽视了爱情的警告......

关系中沟通的 10 条关键规则

由 KosjenkaM | 22.4 月. 2020 | 爱与亲密关系, 交流, 新文章

photo by: Roman Craft Every relationship has its problems and it is not realistic to think we will always have an understanding, agreement and great communication with a partner. A relatively common problem is when one person expects that they shouldn’t have to...