由 KosjenkaM | 23.6 月. 2012 | 爱与亲密关系
If you look around a bit, it seems that in most “stable” relationships partners communicate more through grumbling and sarcasm, than with warmth and respect. These same partners, if somebody years ago suggested that they sit down and make a serious...
由 KosjenkaM | 13.9 月. 2012 | 情绪健康, 爱与亲密关系
有时,我感到惊讶的是,有多少人说,对独处的恐惧让他们停留在不愉快、不健康甚至暴力的关系中。就我个人而言,我喜欢独处,即使我更喜欢建立在信任基础上的良好关系。对独处的恐惧实际上...
由 KosjenkaM | 23.11 月. 2012 | 爱与亲密关系
I have written before about psychological background of disease, and sexual problems are often obvious examples of psychosomatic symptoms. If you have done your medical tests and the results didn’t show any physical issues that would cause a problem, it is time...
由 KosjenkaM | 8.7 月. 2015 | 爱与亲密关系, 滥用
A common pattern in unhealthy relationships is when (at least) one of the partners takes the other for granted, perhaps being aggressive, manipulative or dismissive – but when the other partner decides to leave, the first suddenly starts acting like an...
由 KosjenkaM | 11.2 月. 2016 | 爱与亲密关系
Sometimes people ask me if it’s OK for them or their partner to stay in touch with an ex after starting a new relationship. If you have been reading my posts and articles for a while, you will know that I avoid categorical judgments about “right” and...
由 KosjenkaM | 23.2 月. 2016 | 爱与亲密关系, 滥用
Incompatibility is fairly common in relationships, which means there are plenty of potential red flags of incompatibility depending of one’s values and personal traits. However, sometimes you might not simply be incompatible with a love interest, but you might...