为结婚或同居做准备

To prepare for marriage is not just a matter of decision or emotion, but a process that involves maturity, communication, and a willingness to face the challenges that a relationship brings.  If you look around a bit, it seems that in most “stable”...

害怕孤独

有时,我感到惊讶的是,有多少人说,对独处的恐惧让他们停留在不愉快、不健康甚至暴力的关系中。就我个人而言,我喜欢独处,即使我更喜欢建立在信任基础上的良好关系。对独处的恐惧实际上...

性问题

I have written before about psychological background of disease, and sexual problems are often obvious examples of psychosomatic symptoms. If you have done your medical tests and the results didn’t show any physical issues that would cause a problem, it is time...

与前任保持联系可以吗?

Sometimes people ask me if it’s OK for them or their partner to stay in touch with an ex after starting a new relationship. If you have been reading my posts and articles for a while, you will know that I avoid categorical judgments about “right” and...

人际关系中的红旗

Incompatibility is fairly common in relationships, which means there are plenty of potential red flags of incompatibility depending of one’s values and personal traits. However, sometimes you might not simply be incompatible with a love interest, but you might...
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