爱与亲密关系 - 综合系统辅导

自尊与爱情关系

由 KosjenkaM | 20.5 月. 2005 | 爱与亲密关系, 自尊心

Sometimes people ask me which qualities should one seek in a potential partner. I thought that this question deserved to be answered in more detail so here I present a LONG answer. I will put self-esteem in the first place, since self-esteem influences...

在爱中受苦

由 KosjenkaM | 28.7 月. 2005 | 爱与亲密关系

坠入爱河的无意识基础也许您熟悉这样一种观点，即我们常常会被那些让我们想起父母或童年环境的人所吸引。或者，这是一个全新的想法，很难接受？

嫉妒

由 KosjenkaM | 2.9 月. 2008 | 爱与亲密关系, 情绪健康

Jealousy and possessiveness Jealousy is usually the most childish emotion of all. While experiences of fear, anger, sadness, shame and similar can be appropriate to external reality (although in most cases it’s a mixture of realistic and childish, exaggerated...

爱情关系中的模式

由 KosjenkaM | 19.2 月. 2009 | 爱与亲密关系, 教练, 情绪健康, 最受欢迎

潜意识与爱你喜欢爱你的另一半吗？看似矛盾的是，对许多人来说，爱是痛苦而非幸福的源泉。在成年人的关系中，我们的需求、印记和信念的深度和强度都来自于......

爱情能持续 3 年？

由 KosjenkaM | 9.3 月. 2010 | 爱与亲密关系, 新文章

How relationships fail I’ve once read an article in a paper magazine which half-jokingly stated that “every love lasts 3 years”. The idea was that intimacy, passion and infatuation in an average relationship last about 3 years, after which they...

如何保持激情

由 KosjenkaM | 6.10 月. 2010 | 爱与亲密关系

To keep passion alive, we need to look beyond romantic ideals and recognize the psychological patterns and needs that shape our experience of love. The ecstasy we feel when our love is returned is greatly based on the feeling that we are fully accepted, approved of,...