? KosjenkaM | 21.8 ?. 2015 | 诚信, 教练
Many times, resolving childish emotions, internal conflicts, and toxic beliefs can make difficult decisions much easier. You might recognize, for example, that your partner is not your child, and it?s not your responsibility to make them happy. Or you might resolve...
? KosjenkaM | 16.1 ?. 2016 | 新文章, 诚信, 社会
This is, admittedly, a rather clickbaity title. But the article won’t disappoint. If nothing else, it’s easy to be aware of our own problems and not notice things other people face, and learning about them might help everybody be kinder to each other. For...
? KosjenkaM | 17.1 ?. 2016 | 情绪健康, 诚信, Recommended Articles
Recently I had an interesting philosophical discussion about what “mature behavior” and “mature emotions” actually are, and according to which (and whose) criteria are they defined. Some of the criteria I already wrote about in the...
? KosjenkaM | 24.4 ?. 2016 | 诚信, 社会
Some time last autumn, I was chatting with an acquaintance about toxic beliefs from childhood. He said he was surprised that many people avoid changing such beliefs, sometimes finding excuses, sometimes even reacting with hostility if they disagree with others?...
? KosjenkaM | 29.5 ?. 2016 | 爱与亲密关系, 诚信, 社会
Most people enter marriage full of ideals of mutual love and respect “until death do us part” and happy, smart and cooperative children. Life, however, is not quite so tidy and organized, so it often faces us with challenges, as if saying, “Really?...
? KosjenkaM | 26.5 ?. 2017 | 诚信, 灵感, 个人成长
Did you ever feel fully seen and accepted – welcomed – just as you are, here and now? Perhaps you’d agree that it’s a feeling that rivals falling in love in some ways. Yet, not only few people in this world really have a chance to experience...