设定界限

  理想与传统 许多作家提出了人们应该努力培养的理想行为。许多人都想实现精神理想,如助人为乐、善良、慷慨和分享。然而,他们往往忘记了,大多数人...

沟通、操纵和权力需求

I have noticed, from time to time, books and workshops that are advertised with bombastic promises such as: ‘take control in all communication’, ‘get people to do things you want them to do’, ‘ develop magnetic attraction’ and so...

非语言和微妙的交流

  The more we work on noticing details of our communications with others, the more we start to notice how much we usually miss. There are so many messages the person we talk to will send through very small nonverbal signals, the tone of their voice or their...

如何识别情感勒索?

Manipulation by definition presumes covert attempt to control others, usually involving twisting facts and using words in ways that might be difficult to distinguish from honest communication. That’s why people are often confused whether they...

为人父母、控制和内疚

  控制的需要 负责任的父母的一些任务是教导、引导、支持子女,在某些情况下还需要控制子女。但是,如果一个人停留在这种角色上,并把这种态度应用到身边的成年人身上,就会造成压力和...

我讨厌操纵的 5 个原因

很多时候,在讨论或阅读有关操纵性营销以及个人骗取他人血汗钱(或时间、精力或任何东西)的其他方式的讨论时,我都会看到人们对高超的操纵者表示钦佩。许多人会描述...
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