如何识别情感勒索?

  Emotional blackmail is a form of manipulation. Manipulation, by definition, presumes covert attempt to control others, usually involving twisting facts and using words in ways that might be difficult to distinguish from honest communication. That’s why...

恐惧的礼物(和一些回忆)

“Intuition is always right in at least two important ways: 1. It is always in response to something. 2. It always has your best interest at heart. (…) Our interpretation of intuition is not always right.” Gavin de Becker, The Gift of Fear This time I want to...

前车之鉴

最近与一些年轻客户的合作让我想到了自己刚到大城市求学时的情景。如今,我越来越经常地看到那些回忆,就像看到了另一个人,而不是认同年轻时的自己,看到......

人际关系中的红旗

Incompatibility is fairly common in relationships, which means there are plenty of potential red flags of incompatibility depending of one’s values and personal traits. However, sometimes you might not simply be incompatible with a love interest, but you might...

你是一只会飞的猴子吗?

What is “a flying monkey”?   The expression “flying monkey” originates from the book “The Wizard of Oz”, in which a group of winged monkeys serves an evil witch and executes her destructive commands. In real life, it describes...
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