由 KosjenkaM | 31.5 月. 2018 | 爱与亲密关系
Trying to change a partner When I work with couples (and individuals, too), in their bitter criticisms of their partners I can often guess what a person wanted to say to their parents, but for whatever reasons couldn’t or didn’t dare. (Sometimes I...
由 KosjenkaM | 24.7 月. 2018 | 新文章, 滥用, 交流
Protecting one’s own personal boundaries and finding balance with other people, whether family or strangers, and often in subtle ways, are everyday parts of a human life. Testing and pushing on others’ boundaries is normal in a relationship of a child to a...
由 KosjenkaM | 1.5 月. 2019 | 情绪健康, 灵感, 诚信, 新文章, 个人成长, 推荐文章
身体疼痛是一个信号,表明出了问题。我们的自动反应是尽快减轻疼痛。我们对情绪上的痛苦做出同样的反应也是合情合理的。此外,我们的社区和文化使我们习惯于回避不愉快的情绪,隐藏自己的情绪。
由 KosjenkaM | 6.5 月. 2019 | 情绪健康, 教练, 新文章
前段时间,我在美国与一位女士合作,她有一家私人企业,她非常投入,富有创造力和责任感,而且很有可能取得成功。但是,事情还是在走下坡路,主要原因是她与员工的关系......
由 KosjenkaM | 19.6 月. 2019 | 爱与亲密关系, 新文章
The paradox of (in)security Deep closeness and understanding in a good lasting relationship is one of the best experiences in life. On the other side, the idea that we can “own” someone’s emotions, or that we can control life, is unrealistic and...