寻求接受

Did you ever feel fully seen and accepted – welcomed – just as you are, here and now? Perhaps you’d agree that it’s a feeling that rivals falling in love in some ways. Yet, not only few people in this world really have a chance to experience...

为什么需要指责受害者?

When you read about people in trouble, or victims of violence or political circumstances… do you mentally find reasons why such things wouldn’t happen to you? “I’d do differently in such a situation…”, “In her place,...

价值观与个人特质

  大多数人选择亲密伴侣、朋友,有时甚至是商业伙伴,都是基于他们的个人特质,而不是他们的价值观。例如,我们会注意到某个人聪明、风趣、友好、自信,等等。然而,所有这些...

你是一只会飞的猴子吗?

What is “a flying monkey”?   The expression “flying monkey” originates from the book “The Wizard of Oz”, in which a group of winged monkeys serves an evil witch and executes her destructive commands. In real life, it describes...

与施虐者和受虐者合作

If for whatever reason you are interested to learn about the topic of abuse, I strongly recommend the book “Why Does He Do That?” by Lundy Bancroft. This book is especially useful for dismantling some common myths about what causes abuse and violence...
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