від KosjenkaM | 3.Кві. 2018 | Нові статті, Зловживання, Коучинг
If for whatever reason you are interested to learn about the topic of abuse, I strongly recommend the book “Why Does He Do That?” by Lundy Bancroft. This book is especially useful for dismantling some common myths about what causes abuse and violence...
від KosjenkaM | 24.Лип. 2018 | Нові статті, Зловживання, Комунікація
Protecting one’s own personal boundaries and finding balance with other people, whether family or strangers, and often in subtle ways, are everyday parts of a human life. Testing and pushing on others’ boundaries is normal in a relationship of a child to a...
від KosjenkaM | 4.Вер. 2019 | Емоційне благополуччя, Зловживання, Доброчесність
Чому іноді так важко прощати? У багатьох книгах Нью Ейдж та книгах самодопомоги йдеться про те, що для досягнення внутрішнього спокою ми повинні прощати людей, які завдали нам болю. Найпоширеніша порада про те, як це зробити, звучить приблизно так: просто вирішіть пробачити! Або вони можуть навчити вас...
від KosjenkaM | 8.Вер. 2019 | Зловживання
photo by: Daniele Levis Pelusi What is “normal”? When I was in my first year at uni, we had a discussion about what is actually a behavioral disorder. Long story short, the professor’s conclusion was that a behavioral disorder is defined not...
від KosjenkaM | 7.Лис. 2022 | Зловживання
How and why can good people be abusers? In short: yes, it is sometimes possible for otherwise good people to be abusers in close relationships. I had (at least) one such in my family; I worked as a coach with several of them. Although I don’t specialize in abuse...
від KosjenkaM | 4.Сер. 2024 | Зловживання, Коучинг, Особистісне зростання
Question: Close to a year ago, I got out of an abusive relationship. However, I still feel a deep connection with my ex. It’s difficult to stop thinking about them and wishing they could change. I read it’s called trauma bond. But why does it persist for...