від KosjenkaM | 24.Тра. 2015 | Доброчесність, Особистісне зростання
From time to time, I meet people who proudly proclaim that they don’t want to be around anyone who is not “spiritual enough”. Recently that got me thinking: but what does it mean? For some people, it might mean following a certain religion, or any religion. For...
від KosjenkaM | 2.Чер. 2015 | Зловживання, Суспільство
Останнім часом, працюючи з деякими молодими клієнтами, я згадую себе у такому ж віці, коли я тільки-но приїхав до великого міста, щоб вчитися. Останнім часом я все частіше і частіше бачу ці спогади так, ніби дивлюся на когось іншого, а не ототожнюю себе з собою молодим, і бачу...
від KosjenkaM | 16.Чер. 2015 | Коучинг, Сім'я та діти
While more than 90% of people’s emotional problems seem to originate in childhood (or are at least enhanced by early family), from time to time it’s an interesting experience to work with people who come from healthy, caring and quite mature families. (Some people who...
від KosjenkaM | 8.Лип. 2015 | Любов та інтимність, Зловживання
A common pattern in unhealthy relationships is when (at least) one of the partners takes the other for granted, perhaps being aggressive, manipulative or dismissive – but when the other partner decides to leave, the first suddenly starts acting like an...
від KosjenkaM | 19.Лип. 2015 | Комунікація, Особистісне зростання
Criticism can have different causes, but one often overlooked is fear. Is it difficult for you to set boundaries? Do you have trouble saying “No”, or do you avoid conflicts? If you doubt your ability to defend yourself, you might expect people to know in advance where...