utworzone przez KosjenkaM | 31.maj. 2018 | Miłość i intymność
Trying to change a partner When I work with couples (and individuals, too), in their bitter criticisms of their partners I can often guess what a person wanted to say to their parents, but for whatever reasons couldn’t or didn’t dare. (Sometimes I...
utworzone przez KosjenkaM | 19.cze. 2019 | Miłość i intymność, Nowe artykuły
The paradox of (in)security Deep closeness and understanding in a good lasting relationship is one of the best experiences in life. On the other side, the idea that we can “own” someone’s emotions, or that we can control life, is unrealistic and...
utworzone przez KosjenkaM | 11.paź. 2019 | Miłość i intymność, Nowe artykuły
If you ask yourself what did you learn from your parents about love – from each of them separately, as well as from their relationship – you could come to interesting insights. But our conscious answers are just the top of the iceberg, while most of our...
utworzone przez KosjenkaM | 23.gru. 2019 | Miłość i intymność
Feelings from childhood Being left by someone is hard on both our ego and our inner child. Suddenly losing a source of human connection and attention—whether we appreciated it or took it for granted—often triggers childhood memories of loss and abandonment, sometimes...
utworzone przez KosjenkaM | 29.gru. 2019 | Miłość i intymność
Około połowa moich klientów przychodzi do pracy ze mną z powodu problemów w związkach miłosnych, co oznacza, że słyszałem nieskończone wariacje historii miłosnych i gier miłosnych. Większość z tych wariacji obejmuje ludzi, którzy dają się ponieść dziecinnym emocjom, ignorując ostrzeżenia...
utworzone przez KosjenkaM | 22.kwi. 2020 | Miłość i intymność, Komunikacja, Nowe artykuły
photo by: Roman Craft Every relationship has its problems and it is not realistic to think we will always have an understanding, agreement and great communication with a partner. A relatively common problem is when one person expects that they shouldn’t have to...