執筆者 コジェンカM | 1.2月. 2017 | 個人の成長, インスピレーション, おすすめ記事
Avoiding pain means avoiding experience Did you ever keep quiet out of fear rather than standing up for yourself? Do you avoid trying something new in front of others out of fear to look foolish? Do you even avoid expressing love to your family because you fear...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 26.5月. 2017 | 誠実さ, インスピレーション, 個人の成長
Did you ever feel fully seen and accepted – welcomed – just as you are, here and now? Perhaps you’d agree that it’s a feeling that rivals falling in love in some ways. Yet, not only few people in this world really have a chance to experience...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 1.5月. 2019 | エモーショナル・ウェルビーイング, インスピレーション, 誠実さ, 新しい記事, 個人の成長, おすすめ記事
身体の痛みは、何かが間違っているというシグナルだ。私たちの自動的な反応は、できるだけ早くそれを軽減することである。感情的な痛みに対しても同じように反応するのは理にかなっている。それに、私たちは地域社会や文化によって、不快な感情を避け、隠そうとするように仕向けられている。
執筆者 コジェンカM | 18.9月. 2023 | 新しい記事, 個人の成長
… even when you are not aware of it Some time back, I was working with a small business owner who employed 7-8 people. On the outside, she had everything she needed to succeed: she was driven, innovative, genuinely cared about her customers, and offered services...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 31.7月. 2024 | コミュニケーション, 個人の成長, 自尊心
from Q&A section Question: If I feel insecure or nervous, I start behaving like a child with my partner. It annoys him, but when I see that he is angry, I fall even more into that childish behavior. I remember that I used to do this before at work too. I don’t...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 4.8月. 2024 | 虐待, コーチング, 個人の成長
Question: Close to a year ago, I got out of an abusive relationship. However, I still feel a deep connection with my ex. It’s difficult to stop thinking about them and wishing they could change. I read it’s called trauma bond. But why does it persist for...