執筆者 コジェンカM | 9.3月. 2010 | 愛と親密さ, 新しい記事
How relationships fail I’ve once read an article in a paper magazine which half-jokingly stated that “every love relationship lasts 3 years”. The idea was that intimacy, passion and infatuation in an average relationship last about 3 years, after...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 16.1月. 2016 | 新しい記事, 誠実さ, 社会
This is, admittedly, a rather clickbaity title. But the article won’t disappoint. If nothing else, it’s easy to be aware of our own problems and not notice things other people face, and learning about them might help everybody be kinder to each other. For...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 18.2月. 2017 | エモーショナル・ウェルビーイング, インスピレーション, 新しい記事
人間の温もりはもろいものだ。感情的な温かさを示したり求めたりする子供でさえ、拒絶されたり、無視されたり、嘲笑されたりすることが多い。学校、大学、ビジネスはしばしば残酷な環境であり、そこでは権力闘争に明け暮れる人々がしばしば大声を張り上げ、...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 20.3月. 2018 | 新しい記事, 虐待, 誠実さ
What is “a flying monkey”? The expression “flying monkey” originates from the book “The Wizard of Oz”, in which a group of winged monkeys serves an evil witch and executes her destructive commands. In real life, it describes...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 3.4月. 2018 | 新しい記事, 虐待, コーチング
If for whatever reason you are interested to learn about the topic of abuse, I strongly recommend the book “Why Does He Do That?” by Lundy Bancroft. This book is especially useful for dismantling some common myths about what causes abuse and violence...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 24.7月. 2018 | 新しい記事, 虐待, コミュニケーション
Protecting one’s own personal boundaries and finding balance with other people, whether family or strangers, and often in subtle ways, are everyday parts of a human life. Testing and pushing on others’ boundaries is normal in a relationship of a child to a...