執筆者 コジェンカM | 31.5月. 2018 | 愛と親密さ
Trying to change a partner When I work with couples (and individuals, too), in their bitter criticisms of their partners I can often guess what a person wanted to say to their parents, but for whatever reasons couldn’t or didn’t dare. (Sometimes I...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 19.6月. 2019 | 愛と親密さ, 新しい記事
The paradox of (in)security Deep closeness and understanding in a good lasting relationship is one of the best experiences in life. On the other side, the idea that we can “own” someone’s emotions, or that we can control life, is unrealistic and...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 11.10月. 2019 | 愛と親密さ, 新しい記事
If you ask yourself what did you learn from your parents about love – from each of them separately, as well as from their relationship – you could come to interesting insights. But our conscious answers are just the top of the iceberg, while most of our...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 23.12月. 2019 | 愛と親密さ
Feelings from childhood Being left by someone is hard on both our ego and our inner child. Suddenly losing a source of human connection and attention—whether we appreciated it or took it for granted—often triggers childhood memories of loss and abandonment, sometimes...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 29.12月. 2019 | 愛と親密さ
私のクライアントの約半数は、恋愛関係で問題を抱えている。その多くは、幼稚な感情に流されたり、警告を無視したり......。
執筆者 コジェンカM | 22.4月. 2020 | 愛と親密さ, コミュニケーション, 新しい記事
photo by: Roman Craft Every relationship has its problems and it is not realistic to think we will always have an understanding, agreement and great communication with a partner. A relatively common problem is when one person expects that they shouldn’t have to...
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