執筆者 コジェンカM | 23.6月. 2012 | 愛と親密さ
If you look around a bit, it seems that in most “stable” relationships partners communicate more through grumbling and sarcasm, than with warmth and respect. These same partners, if somebody years ago suggested that they sit down and make a serious...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 13.9月. 2012 | エモーショナル・ウェルビーイング, 愛と親密さ
一人になることを恐れるあまり、不愉快で不健康な、あるいは暴力的な人間関係にとどまってしまうという人が多いことに、ときどき驚かされる。個人的には、信頼に基づいた良好な関係の方がずっと好きだとしても、私は一人でいるのが好きだ。孤独を恐れるのは、実は...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 23.11月. 2012 | 愛と親密さ
I have written before about psychological background of disease, and sexual problems are often obvious examples of psychosomatic symptoms. If you have done your medical tests and the results didn’t show any physical issues that would cause a problem, it is time...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 8.7月. 2015 | 愛と親密さ, 虐待
A common pattern in unhealthy relationships is when (at least) one of the partners takes the other for granted, perhaps being aggressive, manipulative or dismissive – but when the other partner decides to leave, the first suddenly starts acting like an...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 11.2月. 2016 | 愛と親密さ
Sometimes people ask me if it’s OK for them or their partner to stay in touch with an ex after starting a new relationship. If you have been reading my posts and articles for a while, you will know that I avoid categorical judgments about “right” and...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 23.2月. 2016 | 愛と親密さ, 虐待
Incompatibility is fairly common in relationships, which means there are plenty of potential red flags of incompatibility depending of one’s values and personal traits. However, sometimes you might not simply be incompatible with a love interest, but you might...