自尊心と恋愛関係

  Sometimes people ask me which qualities should one seek in a potential partner. I thought that this question deserved to be answered in more detail so here I present a LONG answer.   I will put self-esteem in the first place, since self-esteem influences...

愛の苦しみ

恋に落ちる無意識の基礎 おそらくあなたは、私たちがしばしば両親や幼少期の状況を思い出させる人に恋愛的に惹かれるという考えをよくご存知だろう。あるいは、これは全く新しい考えで、受け入れるのが難しいのだろうか?

愛は3年続く?

How relationships fail I’ve once read an article in a paper magazine which half-jokingly stated that “every love lasts 3 years”. The idea was that intimacy, passion and infatuation in an average relationship last about 3 years, after which they...

情熱を失わない方法

To keep passion alive, we need to look beyond romantic ideals and recognize the psychological patterns and needs that shape our experience of love. The ecstasy we feel when our love is returned is greatly based on the feeling that we are fully accepted, approved of,...
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