執筆者 コジェンカM | 10.5月. 2010 | コミュニケーション, 虐待
Manipulation by definition presumes covert attempt to control others, usually involving twisting facts and using words in ways that might be difficult to distinguish from honest communication. That’s why people are often confused whether they...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 10.5月. 2014 | エモーショナル・ウェルビーイング, 虐待
“Intuition is always right in at least two important ways:1. It is always in response to something.2. It always has your best interest at heart.(…) Our interpretation of intuition is not always right.”Gavin de Becker, The Gift of Fear This time I want to...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 2.6月. 2015 | 虐待, 社会
最近、何人かの若い顧客と仕事をしていて、同じ年頃の自分について考えるようになった。最近は、若い頃の自分に同化して見るのではなく、まるで別の誰かを見るように、その思い出を見ることが多くなった......。
執筆者 コジェンカM | 8.7月. 2015 | 愛と親密さ, 虐待
A common pattern in unhealthy relationships is when (at least) one of the partners takes the other for granted, perhaps being aggressive, manipulative or dismissive – but when the other partner decides to leave, the first suddenly starts acting like an...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 23.2月. 2016 | 愛と親密さ, 虐待
Incompatibility is fairly common in relationships, which means there are plenty of potential red flags of incompatibility depending of one’s values and personal traits. However, sometimes you might not simply be incompatible with a love interest, but you might...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 20.3月. 2018 | 新しい記事, 虐待, 誠実さ
What is “a flying monkey”? The expression “flying monkey” originates from the book “The Wizard of Oz”, in which a group of winged monkeys serves an evil witch and executes her destructive commands. In real life, it describes...