??? コジェンカM | 11.12?. 2009 | 家族と子供たち
In pre-history, bearing children was essential for humanity to survive. Nowadays, it appears that survival of humanity (and many other species) depends of how well can we keep our biological impulses in line. That includes urges for power, hoarding, social status,...
??? コジェンカM | 9.3?. 2010 | 愛と親密さ, 新しい記事
恋愛はどのように破綻するのか 以前、ある新聞雑誌で「恋愛は3年で終わる」と冗談半分に書かれた記事を読んだことがある。それは、平均的な恋愛における親密さ、情熱、熱愛は3年ほど続き、その後は......というものだった。
??? コジェンカM | 10.5?. 2010 | コミュニケーション, 虐待
Manipulation by definition presumes covert attempt to control others, usually involving twisting facts and using words in ways that might be difficult to distinguish from honest communication. That’s why people are often confused whether they...
??? コジェンカM | 6.10?. 2010 | 愛と親密さ
The ecstasy we feel when our love is returned is greatly based on the feeling that we are fully accepted, approved of, and free to be who we are. This is what, as children, we needed most from our parents, but rarely received, whether due to parents’ lack of...
??? コジェンカM | 15.3?. 2012 | 誠実さ, 社会
While learning to recognize emotional patterns from childhood, emotional traditions of our family and their consequences, and how to heal and change them, it’s important not to ignore biological aspects of our everyday behaviour. Without awareness of what our...