執筆者 コジェンカM | 24.5月. 2015 | 誠実さ, 個人の成長
From time to time, I meet people who proudly proclaim that they don’t want to be around anyone who is not “spiritual enough”. Recently that got me thinking: but what does it mean? For some people, it might mean following a certain religion, or any religion. For...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 2.6月. 2015 | 虐待, 社会
最近、何人かの若い顧客と仕事をしていて、同じ年頃の自分について考えるようになった。最近は、若い頃の自分に同化して見るのではなく、まるで別の誰かを見るように、その思い出を見ることが多くなった......。
執筆者 コジェンカM | 16.6月. 2015 | コーチング, 家族と子供たち
While more than 90% of people’s emotional problems seem to originate in childhood (or are at least enhanced by early family), from time to time it’s an interesting experience to work with people who come from healthy, caring and quite mature families. (Some people who...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 8.7月. 2015 | 愛と親密さ, 虐待
A common pattern in unhealthy relationships is when (at least) one of the partners takes the other for granted, perhaps being aggressive, manipulative or dismissive – but when the other partner decides to leave, the first suddenly starts acting like an...
執筆者 コジェンカM | 19.7月. 2015 | コミュニケーション, 個人の成長
Criticism can have different causes, but one often overlooked is fear. Is it difficult for you to set boundaries? Do you have trouble saying “No”, or do you avoid conflicts? If you doubt your ability to defend yourself, you might expect people to know in advance where...