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Successful Relationships With Asperger’s Syndrome

by KosjenkaM | 4.Aug. 2024 | Love & Intimacy

From Q&A section: Is it possible for people with Asperger’s syndrome to have successful relationships? What are some tips for maintaining a healthy relationship for individuals with Asperger’s syndrome, as well as their partners? Answer: Every person and...

Is it OK to end a relationship if I’m no longer happy?

by KosjenkaM | 4.Aug. 2024 | Love & Intimacy

From Q&A section: Is it justifiable to end a relationship solely because I’m no longer happy, even if my partner has not done anything wrong? Answer: There are plenty of people around who parted on friendly terms and without blame for their exes. Maybe they...

How To Find Balance Between Caring What Others Think And Selfishness?

by KosjenkaM | 4.Aug. 2024 | Emotional wellbeing, Integrity, Self-esteem

Question: Where is the middle ground between “stop caring about what others think” & “stop being so selfish”? photo by Leio McLaren Answer: Both caring about what other people think and selfishness are parts of our biological makeup, as well as our upbringing....

How can I forgive my boyfriend who hurt me in the past?

by KosjenkaM | 4.Aug. 2024 | Love & Intimacy

From Q&A section Answer: Anger/resentment usually has 3 main causes (not mutually exclusive): you feel your well-being is objectively threatened, and anger is a source of energy to protect yourself. If that person is still your boyfriend and not an ex, it might be...

How can you tell if your partner is truly over their past relationship?

by KosjenkaM | 4.Aug. 2024 | Love & Intimacy

photo credit: Negar Nikkhah from Q&A section Question: How can you tell if your partner is truly over their past relationship or if they are hiding their feelings to spare your feelings? Answer: they show genuine enthusiasm about being with you (not just verbally,...