от KosjenkaM | 3.Апр. 2018 | Новые статьи, Злоупотребление, Коучинг
If for whatever reason you are interested to learn about the topic of abuse, I strongly recommend the book “Why Does He Do That?” by Lundy Bancroft. This book is especially useful for dismantling some common myths about what causes abuse and violence...
от KosjenkaM | 24.Июл. 2018 | Новые статьи, Злоупотребление, Общение
Protecting one’s own personal boundaries and finding balance with other people, whether family or strangers, and often in subtle ways, are everyday parts of a human life. Testing and pushing on others’ boundaries is normal in a relationship of a child to a...
от KosjenkaM | 4.Сен. 2019 | Эмоциональное благополучие, Злоупотребление, Целостность
Почему иногда так трудно простить? Во многих книгах по нью-эйджу и самопомощи говорится, что для достижения внутреннего мира необходимо простить людей, которые причинили нам боль. Распространенное сообщение о том, как это сделать, звучит примерно так: "Просто решите простить! Или они могут наставлять вас...
от KosjenkaM | 8.Сен. 2019 | Злоупотребление
photo by: Daniele Levis Pelusi What is “normal”? When I was in my first year at uni, we had a discussion about what is actually a behavioral disorder. Long story short, the professor’s conclusion was that a behavioral disorder is defined not...
от KosjenkaM | 7.Ноя. 2022 | Злоупотребление
How and why can good people be abusers? In short: yes, it is sometimes possible for otherwise good people to be abusers in close relationships. I had (at least) one such in my family; I worked as a coach with several of them. Although I don’t specialize in abuse...
от KosjenkaM | 4.Авг. 2024 | Злоупотребление, Коучинг, Личностный рост
Question: Close to a year ago, I got out of an abusive relationship. However, I still feel a deep connection with my ex. It’s difficult to stop thinking about them and wishing they could change. I read it’s called trauma bond. But why does it persist for...
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